I've always wanted to write a book.
Had a lot of ideas for books, what will they look like, what's the story in it, how they will excite certain people and inspire some. I've always wanted to publish my so-many-that-I-lost-count poems. But most of the ideas went down, trashed by my yielding focus. Hahah..
Well, before this one idea for a book fall from Everest to the trench of Atlantic, I decided to write it and renew it in my blog.
Title: 50 Things You Should Do Before Breaking Up
Origin of Idea:
Many people fell in love, many cases they will fall in love more than once, and in those cases a lot of relationship begins, and ends. Actually, how many people had only one relationship til the end of his life/bachelorhood (nice)? Bet, only small fraction of people.
Some thought about bad memories looking back at the ending of relationships, some even be obsessed. Now, I saw it in a very different cut, how about this: you and him/her broke up yesterday, and you realize, that you had a plan to take him/her to this awesome restaurant that has this great view and menu. So bad your luck, it will never happened, coz you've broken up. "If only I hadn't waited til his/her next birthday, maybe there won't be any regrets. At least I didn't plan it for nothing, but now it's too late."
Well, this is dr.Solution!! In case you haven't thought about things such as "why didn't I think about taking him/her to do this" or "He/she loves parasailing! Why didn't I take her to ...", this book will provide a list, you can have it as a checklist or just a reference of, what you should do not to regret coz not knowing, before some relationship went bad and ended!
If it's a right thing to do, then there will always be a right time to do it.
Included are time frames and real (or easily made up) occasions where you can do it.
So that you can try it as soon as possible, before things we all maybe doesn't hope for really happens.
Married or not married
Whether or not you end up happily ever after with your couple, if you took these advice and put it in practice, you most probably won't regret it.
"Hey, thanks to doing this I knew in advance that she had a bad case of sea sickness. Not taking her to a breath taking yacht deep sea fishing when we have a family holiday, check."
"Ah, she's allergic to peanut. You may not want to give her rocky road with peanut butter toppings. I did it once in a date and she had anaphylactic shock. I promised her I'll never do it again"
Okay, maybe not as extreme as the latter.
Anyways, let's start the count, shall we?
Hehe... Btw yg kemaren inspiratif lim
BalasHapusYang mana tuh Hau?
BalasHapusBtw, Things you should do before breaking up
1. Take your mate to the beach, at sunset
Just striding along, feel the breeze sooth you both and you're dreamy.
Gaze the majestic orange sky in ply to that romantic sunset makes you comfy. You can take pictures, making fun with waves and silhouette while making sandcastles if you'd like. It will be unforgettable for a long time.
2. Italian Restaurant at night
BalasHapusYou could come up with some of the few funny Italian jokes, throw in some great-sounding-don't-know-what-it-means Italian lines, and of course, pasta!!!
Better, if you can make someone play the stradivari for you while dining. Playing 'O Sole Mio' or 'Santa Lucia' making that a beautiful night. The Resto itself should have the Italian atmosphere (table under umbrella, decorative pavement), or else it won't work as much. Try Cafe Pisa or such.
3. Visit the funland (Disney Land or Dufan)
It will be better with friends, considerate friends who would leave you alone if you want to. Screaming together at a roller coaster ride or have a tour at the amusement, or just visiting the mirror maze attraction (makes you search for each other, hopefully it will make him/her miss you) will do.